When you are getting attached to someone that you admire a lot maybe from a far or close distance you will be wondering does she like me? What if she doesn’t like? Will she embarrass me if I tell her how I feel etc. I know that you fear being rejected and is part of the process but I tell this, you will never get an answer to any of those questions popping in your head until you understand the signs a girl likes you.
Most ladies don’t walk up to a guy just to tell him how she feels about him but the truth be told, she will give you some signals, some signs that is interested in you, it is now left for you as a man to decode and complete the move for her or you ignore it.
Therefore without knowing the signs a girl likes you, you will always remain confused and that fear of rejection will never depart from you.
So below here, I will guide you through on how to know if a girl likes you
- SMILE: I use smile as point number one because ladies believe that their good luck charm is in their smile, and I guess they are right, smile as the power to capture someone’s attention there by giving a lot of meaning in the person mind.
A lady who smiles at you regularly than the usual way she normally smile at you or other guys is absolutely in love with you and no matter how she wants to hide the feelings from you, her smile keeps exposing her, so read meaning into her smile before she divert her attention to someone else and you will understand the real deal behind that charming smile of hers towards you.
- She Laughs at everything you say: making jokes for people to laugh is at times not that easy as you think, you may sit out with friends or colleague at work chatting and you decided to throw in a joke to lighten the place according to you, yet you discover that is just you and your joke in this kind of situation is embarrassing but she will laugh at it so deep with emotion attached so that you won’t decode that your joke wasn’t funny that she is faking the laughter.
Therefore she makes you feel confident when making jokes at work etc.
- She feels jealous: some guys can be so annoying, how can you tell another lady who is single but happen to be your friend about how much you are into someone else not her?
If this is you, you really need to know these signs as quick as you can before you lose a lot of things due to ignorance.
A girl who likes you will feel jealous mere seeing you laughing with another girl you make laugh over her reaction or action but in within her, she is hurt.
- She hangs around you: okay I know many girls are so social and friendly that they can easily hug any guy so tight without anything attached. But she will not hang around that guy frequently.
A girl hanging around you is a simple sign that she likes your company and if anyone likes your company, it simply means that the person likes you. She makes sure that she makes herself available anytime any day you feel like you want to talk to someone, Therefore in this aspect, it means it is one of the signs that she likes you just as simple as that.
- She makes body contact: body contact doesn’t only have to do with laying down with you, body contact can come as a result of hand touching, admiring your muscles or hair, slight touching with a smile when talking or having fun with you, etc. all those are signs a girl likes you enough and wants something more than just friends which is intimacy.
- She speaks always about you: in this particular point, you will really get an accurate answer from her friends, your friends or colleague at work because those will tell you that she likes you a lot.
Do you really have to go and ask her friends “Does she like me”? Of course no, although you can still do that, but it will look like you are a confuse guy so the best thing you do is this “Observation” her friends reactions and looks will tell you all you need to know.
If a lady likes a man and she feels confuse and needs someone to talk to, it is her friends she will share that secret feelings with. So therefore, whatever she tells her friends will determine how her friends will treat or act around you anytime they sees you.
- Eye contact: Ladies hardly glance at guys if they don’t admire the guy. Yeah even on a social media, if a girl doesn’t admire you or crush on you through your picture, she will don’t even look at it twice nor even comment on it with sweet words.
- She is always looking for your attention: attention and time is one major thing that ladies don’t joke with from a man and if you happen to give her that, then you will not only make her to feel comfortable talking to you, you will also show her the reasons she should like you more over and over again and why she should choose you over the other guys.
- She teases you regularly: she teasing you regularly does not mean that she is lonely or that she lacks what to do with her time, neither is she a comedian but with you, she is ready to see a smile on your face no matter the situation at hand because she cares deeply about you.
- She tries looking good especially in your presence: have you ever walked in and just by seeing you she starts arranging her clothes, her hair etc.? Then what about going out maybe for picnic or for a dinner or a friendly party and she dresses in a way that can blow a man thought away?
If you have never notice that, then you need my advice on this because you are ignoring the inviting green light she is giving you. So please don’t ignore her effort if you like her too.
- She is interested in your hobby: she notice your area of interest and tends to be interested too. she ensures that she learns a little about it so she can flow with you when you start talking about it.
- She is eager to respond to your messages: the greatest contact on ladies social handle are always guys, which means 88% are guys and 12% are ladies. Out of that 88% of guys in her friends list, she may happen to know just 35% of them and 53% are guys who just admire her profile and now decided to make friends with her, even with their handsomeness and cash, she replies to all your chat without missing even then it means she likes you and enjoys your company.
- She is nervous: a lady being nervous around you does not signifies that she is a shy person, but she is nervous because her heart is beating so hard and fast and the butterfly’s in her stomach is bringing so many crazy ideas into her mind like should I tell him I love him too? Should I tell him I like his eyes, wow his lips, Oh God what is happening to my body, why am I feeling this way? All these are occurring by just seeing you or your words.
So don’t use that to judge her Instead press on and make her see the good side of you and use it as a weapon to shot.
- She compliment you a lot: a compliment is a reciprocal, if a lady compliments you, maybe because of your dressing, haircut, shoe, fitness etc. she is likewise expecting from your own end too.
So don’t prove ignorance by just smiling or telling her thanks, instead turn around, look her from her head down or from down to her head with a smiling face tell her “Wow you look beautiful too”. If she blushing, then that’s it.
- Her actions and reaction when you are in trouble or home sick: Many ladies may ask you how is your health, but it will take a lady who likes you and cares about you to ask you have you taken drugs, what did you eat before taking the drugs, do you need company, do you have someone to look after you nor cook for you etc.
There are so many other signs that a girl likes you, but you just have to read the hand writing as fast as you can because if you don’t, you may end up single.